It
is such a good feeling when someone ask you if you remember them. Your
mind starts working very hard to remember where and when and of course
their name. The most embarrasing part is that they all remembered my
name with in seconds while I struggle to figure out who they are. The
difficulty of this process is that I have not seen most of them for over
45 or 50 years. One particular person remembered me so quickly and we
went to school from Kindergarten to Grade 4. What is funny is his first
comment "when we were little you were so pretty and very light
colored". You are probably wondering if I attended a reunion or
something similar. Actually last weekend I attended a funeral viewing
for a family friend. They were our next door neighbor in the small town
where we lived in the Philippines. The second eldest son passed away
and my good friend Lito (aka the Ambassador) contacted me and we all
decided to attend. What I did not realized is the number of family and
friends of the family that I actually knew or should I say knew me.
Some of them were easy to recognized because of how each one has aged
gracefully and you can still see that feature that you remember as a
kid. Others I recognize from the way the wear their hair or clothes or
their height. Although it was a sad part of their lives - losing their
brother, cousin and friend - it was definitely a perfect time to
reconnect with everyone. There were family and friends from different
parts of the USA (Arizona, New Jersey, New York and more) including
other cities in California. I had to find a photo that I could share
with you.
If you are wondering where I am, on the second row from left to right, I am the 6th girl. The two boys that I met last weekend were Ricky Alcantara (front row,left to right, 2nd boy) and Hector Lavarias (front row, right to left, 4th boy). The boy directly infront of me is Victor Tolosa, he is one of the brother of the
deceased. Unfortunately he could not make the trip as he is back home
in the Philippines. While looking at this photograph, I remembered that
our teacher Mrs. Perez is the aunt of Lori, she actually got a ride from us to the Funeral Home. It is such a small world. I was trying to look at this photo and was trying to recall all the names but I am afraid I can only remember 25% of their names. As you can see from the date of the photo - this was taken 54 years ago.
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